Get Back Your Ex By Becoming Less Available And An Increased Challenge

You were a challenge for her. You had a high appeal and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I am going to make a wild guess here, but can it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you might be zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and twisted around her little finger just by saying the word?

I'm going to be a bit crude here, but as you may already know, to develop into a challenge again you need to prove to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality has no control over you any more. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about just what it is like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You happen to be indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other options.

Your sweetheart will not respect you again until you refuse her influence over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not specifically communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Make sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. You should not be "friends" with her, as that rewards your ex with the continued consent of power over you while providing her a convenient excuse to stay separated. (Your lover reasons that she's letting you down easy this way, assuaging any culpability she may experience.)

However, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your things. Probably a lot of your belongings are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything back again.

The very best answer to this should be "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her possessing your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

For the up coming 3 weeks, you must completely accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent guy now. Take what occurred with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You have a golden chance to transform your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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